“Lindsay, how long will it take to get over my Ex-Boyfriend?”

To be honest (and, I don’t think this is the answer you were looking for) I think it is different for everyone. And, I think it’s different in each relationship.

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I dated, with every intention of marrying, my college boyfriend. We had known each other since High School, but were together as a couple for a year and a half. He was a good Christian guy and for the longest time I saw myself with him forever.

But, like many relationships, it just didn’t work out. He had started seeing someone else and I was completely devastated. I can honestly say it took almost a full year to fully recover from the sadness the breakup caused. Do I think that’s normal? No… And here’s why…

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These past few weeks God has been giving me opportunities to be at church and at different church events to get to know Him, so since I love Him, I thought that I should go.  Sounds like the right thing to do, right?

Every weekend for four weeks straight I have had a church event to go to. I thought that if I kept going to things where I learned about Him that I would become closer to Him.

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By the second week of these church events, I found myself wanting to just go home and relax.  But I thought that I was just being selfish because God deserved my time, and being there was for Him.  Then on the fourth week straight of all this stuff I broke down and finally just canceled what I had planned to rest and have a day to do nothing.

Best decision ever.

During that rest day I finally had time to connect with God. I finally took the time to talk to Him.

What I found was that even though I was going to church things, I wasn’t connecting with Him. I was hearing and learning about Him but I wasn’t getting to know Him.  I learned that you can go to church all you want, but if you don’t take the time to pause and talk to God you’ve missed the point.

As a high-schooler myself I know how busy we can get. Trying to juggle homework, sports, clubs, time with friends, jobs, and church can sometimes become really overwhelming.  But through all of this stuff, we need to take time to seek after God, being alone and praying to Him.  So often we get caught up in all the things we have to do, we miss the reason why we are doing them.  This is why we have to take time daily and talk to God.  Some days you may not feel like it, but believe me, it’s worth it.

“After he (Jesus) had dismissed them, he went up on a mountainside by himself to pray. When evening came, he was there alone…” Matthew 14:23

“But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.” Matthew 6:6

Kirstin is a 15 year old Sophomore from Maryland. When she's not at church events, she enjoys longboarding, playing basketball and hanging out with her friends. Kirstin also founded helpotherpeopleeat.org

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I’ve been restless on the inside
wondering about this heart of mine
I’ve been desperately trying to find
a way to prove that I’m still alive

Has the love I speak so loudly of
quietly grown cold
Is my life been an empty voice
what I sing needs to be seen
I need to step out and make the choice
to let go of everything

Would you reignite this heart spark here in the dark

Bring your love to life inside of me
Why don’t you break my heart ’til it moves my hands and feet
For the hopeless and the broken
for the ones that don’t know that you love them

Bring your love to life inside of me
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Sunday Love

by LindsayClosson
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“Forget about what’s happened;     don’t keep going over old history. Be alert, be present. I’m about to do something brand-new.     It’s bursting out! Don’t you see it? There it is! I’m making a road through the desert,     rivers in the badlands.”  Isaiah 43:19 MSG

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Three Things Ants Can Teach You About Getting Better Grades {Insight} Day 6

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Growing up I was always jealous of my older brother, Ryan.  Especially when it came to getting good grades.  It seemed like he could stay after school to play Basketball, hang out with his friends, watch TV, surf the internet all day – then take 15 minutes to do his homework – and somehow he [...]

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Sex Scandals, Cheating and Unfaithfulness – Yes We’re Talking About It. {Insight} Day 5

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Lindsay’s Note: Ohhhh, how I wanted so badly to skip over this chapter and skirt around some of these ideas. My post today may be sensitive for younger readers. If you are one of my sweet Junior High girls I am going to suggest reading this Chapter with a loving adult that you trust who [...]

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Jamie Grace “You Lead” – New Music Monday

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YAYAYAYAYAYAYAYA!!! I am so lucky to be able to say that I have both met and adore Jamie Grace. This Grammy Award Nominated recording artist just landed her first Dove Award for “Best New Artist.” She is a true example of letting God lead her life – and look what He can do!! She also [...]

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Sunday Love

by LindsayClosson
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And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. Romans 8:28 Scottsdale, AZ – April 21, 2012

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What Popular Girls Have That You Don’t (And how to get one…) {Insight} Day 27

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The Popular Girl – you know her.  You know her because EVERYBODY knows her.  She is the girl that appears to have it all together, gorgeous inside and out, and really can do no wrong.  If you don’t love her you hate her for being so well liked, so well respected, so well admired. But [...]

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